Today’s gospel (with my comments in bold): “Then [Jesus] said, “There was man who had two sons. The younger one said to his father ‘Father, let me have the share of the estate that will come to me.’ In short, the younger son is saying, “Dad, let’s assume you’re dead now. Gimme the money" [Under Jewish law, he’ll only get 1/3 of the personal property, and no real estate]. A little insulting, isn’t it? So his father divided the property between them.
A few days later, the younger son got together everything he had and left for a distant country where he squandered his money on a life of debauchery. When he had spent it all, that country experienced a severe famine, and now he began to feel the pinch; so he hired himself out to one of the local inhabitants who put him on his farm to feed the pigs. And he would willingly have filled himself with the husks the pigs were eating but no one would let him have them. The son was so desperate that not only would he feed one of the ultimate unclean animals, but he was willing to be become so unclean as to eat their food. Then he came to his senses and said, “How many of my father’s hired men have all the food they want and more, and here am I dying of hunger! I will leave this place and go to my father and say: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you; I no longer deserve to be called your son; treat me as one of your hired men.’
So he left the place and went back to his father. While he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was moved with pity. Remember, this is pity for the kid who essentially told this same father to die. He ran to the boy, Amazing! Jewish men don’t run anywhere, nor do they move towards younger people. Younger people come to them. Here is a forgiving father! clasped him in his arms and kissed him. A clear indication that the son is within the father’s protection – forgiveness before he even hears that the son is sorry Then his son said, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I no longer deserved to be called your son." But the father said to his servants, “Quick! Bring out the best robe and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. This robe would have been the father’s robe Bring the calf we have been fattening, and kill it; we will celebrate by having a feast, This is a major event; cattle are a rare and prized possession in Palestine. Because of the potential for spoiled left-over meat, the entire village would have been invited to the party, because this son of mine was dead and has come back to life; he was lost and is found." And they began to celebrate.
Now the elder son was out in the fields, and on his way back, as he drew near the house, he could hear music and dancing. Calling one of the servants he asked what it was all about. The servant told him, “Your brother has come, and your father has killed the calf we had been fattening because he has got him back safe and sound." He was angry then and refused to go in, and his father came out and began to urge him to come in; The father is so forgiving that he is willing to beg the other son to do something, another un-elder-like action—normally he’d just order the son to act but he retorted to his father, “All these years I have slaved for you and never once disobeyed any orders of yours, yet you never offered me so much as a kid for me to celebrate with my friends. But, for this son of yours, when he comes back after swallowing up your property – he and his loose women very unclean – you kill the calf we had been fattening."
The father said, “My son, you are with me always and all I have is yours. But it was necessary Necessary?! that we should celebrate and rejoice, because your brother here was dead and has come to life; he was lost and is found."
The story of the Prodigal Son is not designed to show us the need for repentance; it is not really surprising that the younger son decided to seek forgiveness given his desperate circumstances. In this parable, Jesus wants to make a point about how we forgive by comparing the father, the one who was gravely insulted, with the older son, and He invites us to think about ourselves. Are we the father, or the older son?
The father, who shed himself of the son who treated him as if he were dead, willingly brings the unclean outcast back into the family fold. He breaks convention by running to see him, treating him as he would himself, and indicating, by the killing of the fatted calf and throwing a party, not just forgiveness, but joy in the son’s return! The older son, on the other hand, acts as a normal member of his Jewish community, as perhaps most of us would – he holds a grudge against the younger son’s actions toward the father, as well as the rather horrid things that the youngster did with the money.
Who was really insulted? The father, not the older son. And yet it is the father who forgives before he even hears the apology. He so desires to give forgiveness that he is willing to go to the older son and beg him to join in the party of forgiveness. And then we hear the stunning conclusion: we don’t just accept repentance, we are required to rejoice in it!
“As Lasallians, Brothers and Partners, we are ministers of God and ambassadors of Jesus Christ and, as such, it is our duty to be instruments of mercy" (Message of the General Council, Beginning of the Jubilee Year of Mercy). Remembering that two of the spiritual works of mercy are to forgive offenses and to bear wrongs patiently, may our interior Lenten check this week be to compare ourselves to the (F)ather and the older brother: Do we forgive and model it to our students? Do we rejoice in repentance and inspire joy in those entrusted to our care?
Live, Jesus, in our hearts!